My best dating tip is simple, but effective. Be yourself! Too often on dates it seems like the two people are trying so hard to impress each other that they often come across as a completely different person. A usually confident person is so nervous that they come off as insecure. A usually insecure person tries to talk themselves up and make themselves appear to be something they’re not. So on, and so fourth…

Most dates take place in the evening, so before even going on a date, do something to de-stress. Do some yoga, take a bath, watch a movie, read a book. Whatever calms your racing mind, do it. It’s only natural to be a little nervous around someone you like, but you should relax. Obviously if the person accepted your invitation, they’re interested, too, and probably just as nervous! Just envision both of you laughing about this months, or even years down the line if it works out.

When the date finally does roll around, stay cool. Keep your conversation light and friendly. Stick to topics you and the other person are comfortable with, and really listen to what they have to say. Learning more about the other person, and vice versa, will give you some insight into who they are and clue you in as to how the whole date is going to go. Don’t try and flaunt yourself or put yourself down. Above all, it’s important to remember that the person you’re on a date with should like you for who you are. If they don’t, the date wasn’t worth stressing over to begin with!