Most of us want our dates to like us. To be admired and desired by our partner is a healthy, normal emotion because we all understand that successful relationships require an element of attraction. Further, nothing beats the ego boost of having someone fall for you. As a result, we all work very hard at trying to get people to like us. But are we trying too hard?

Never forget how important it is to be your true self. If you're too agreeable on a date, the things that you're eager to agree with are most likely going to come back to haunt you if a relationship develops. For example, if you're not a cat person, you should definitely mention this fact when your date is talking about the three cats they own. If your date is very attractive to you, it's difficult to admit your hatred for cats, isn't it? Remember, in the long run, you're only going to help yourself by preventing a world of heartbreak and fights. It takes practice to be honest and truthful, but the end goal of a compatible mate is worth it.

If your first meeting went well with no major compatibility issues, it's time to focus on your desirability factor! You can appear more attractive without compromising any of the things you stand for by creating an interesting, well-planned date! Bring a unique date idea to the table, so to speak. Nothing is less attractive on a date than back-and-forth deciding and "whatever you want" conversations. Think of something fun, interesting, and romantic and then make it happen! You don't have to spend a nickel on a successful date, as long as it meets those criteria and is planned out to the last detail.

So remember, don't be afraid of bailing at the first sign of a major compatibility issue. This is the key to meeting the person you're meant to be with. And, since you never know when your true love is going to arrive, you need to make every date as special as possible. Plan every date as if it's the "first date" story you'll be telling your grandchildren about. Good luck and happy dating!